Because of my own baggage, this article about the backlash against casual sex strikes a bit of a nerve. I'll be thinking about that one for a while.
It ain't just women that think about that stuff, is what I'm saying.
What I will say about it, though, is this: on an individual level, deep down, we all know which behaviors we engage in that make us feel healthy and positive, and which behaviors make us feel unhealthy and negative. A hallmark of maturity is understanding that, and making our own decisions based on knowing ourselves rather than what other people tell us we should do.